WHY I DO WHAT I DO
This work matters deeply to me because everyone deserves to feel seen, valued and fully expressed in their relationships. The quality of our closest connections profoundly shapes the quality of our lives.
MY STORY
I grew up with a conservative Asian upbringing where sex was a taboo subject and love was rarely expressed openly. I know firsthand how silence and shame can affect our confidence, our health and the way we relate to others.
My own healing journey reshaped how I understand attachment and intimacy, and ultimately led me to this work. In addition, I bring two decades of experience in the corporate world, which have offered me insights into the stress and pressures that can slowly erode connection in modern relationships.
CREDENTIALS THAT COUNT
I started studying human sexuality at Stanford University, followed by years of real-world experience across education, research and entrepreneurship.
Today, I hold certification as a sexologist and coach with the American Board of Sexologists and have completed Gottman Institute training (Level 1 and 2). I also host the Better in Bed podcast, which has surpassed a million downloads worldwide.
I’m committed to ongoing professional development to ensure my work remains informed, evidence‑based and ethically grounded.
COACHING WITH HEART
I’m especially passionate about supporting people who grew up with limited, shame‑based beliefs around sex and relationships.
The most meaningful moments I’ve experienced doing this work are when couples soften toward each other again and when individuals realise they were never broken, just shaped by stories that can be rewritten.
START YOUR JOURNEY
I encourage you to explore the resources on this website to take a more intentional approach to intimacy and relationships. I look forward to connecting with you more regularly along the way.
Big hugs,
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