WHY I DO WHAT I DO
I believe that authenticity is the foundation of intimacy — both with ourselves and with others. So I’m here to guide you in creating a life filled with love, pleasure, meaningful connection and yes, amazing sex!
This work matters deeply to me because everyone deserves to feel seen, valued and fully expressed in their sexuality and relationships.
MY STORY
I grew up in a religious, conservative family in Asia where sex was completely taboo. I experienced firsthand how shame and silence had an impact on my confidence, health and relationships.
For instance, I would often agree to things I wasn’t comfortable with and prioritise my partner’s desires over my own.
This led me to embark on a healing journey to redefine my understanding of connection and intimacy, and as a result, helping others do the same became my life’s work.
CREDENTIALS THAT COUNT
I first started studying human sexuality at Stanford University, which laid the foundation for my work as an erotic writer and researcher.
I then gained valuable experience from running an adult boutique where the goal was to provide women with the tools and techniques to integrate pleasure into everyday life.
In 2019, I started my sex education podcast Better in Bed, to create a safe space for open and honest conversations about sex and intimacy. Since then, it’s surpassed a million downloads and reaches listeners all over the world, helping to break down taboos and misconceptions.
Around the same time, I gained my certification as a sexologist and coach with the American Board of Sexologists. I’m deeply committed to constantly upgrading my skills, ensuring that I provide well-informed, evidence-based and ethical guidance to anyone seeking my expertise.
COACHING WITH HEART
What lights me up most is working with people who were underserved by their sex education and cultural upbringing.
Witnessing that moment of clarity, when a client sees that they’re not broken, but simply unlearning old narratives, is incredibly rewarding.
START YOUR JOURNEY
I encourage you to explore the resources on this website to take a more intentional approach to sex and intimacy. I look forward to connecting with you more regularly along the way.
Big hugs,
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