Congratulations, Hummingbird!
Your Intimacy Language is Playful, Energetic, Expressive
Hummingbirds use intimacy language that is playful, energetic and enthusiastic. Sex is a fun topic for you, and you enjoy flirting with your lover(s) or joking about it. However, if you only keep things light and superficial, it may be challenging to talk about the more serious issues in your sex and love life, should they arise.
Coaching Guidance for You
Sexual intimacy happens when you feel safe, loved and aroused by your partners. Share something vulnerable with your lover(s) to intensify that trust and connection. Use a conversation starter like, “what’s one thing about your sexuality you’ve never told anyone else?”, and answer first.
You may find it easy to talk about fantasies and getting off but try thinking about your sex life in a more mindful, introspective way. Why do you like what you like? What do you feel is holding you back from a better sex life? Share this with your lover(s) and see where that conversation takes you.
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