Congratulations, Owl!
Your Intimacy Language is Calm, Thoughtful and Meaningful
Owls are strong, silent types that occasionally dive into deep, meaningful conversations. Lovers feel like they can open up to you, as you are usually calm, thoughtful and a good listener. But you find it hard to open up - especially about sex and how you’re feeling - so most lover(s) find you a bit of a mystery.
Coaching Guidance for you
Remember your lover isn’t a mind reader. They would probably love to know more about your sexual desires, and build a more intimate connection. A good conversation starter for this would be something like, “It would be such a turn on if I/we could…”
Try bringing more playfulness into your pillow talk. When we play we are free to get things wrong, experiment, try on different roles, laugh and even be foolish. If you find it challenging to communicate like this in person, then sexting your partner a sexy gif or a fantasy could be a good start.
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