19. SECRETS OF THE BEDROOM (LIVE)
WHAT’S THE SECRET TO…HAVING A THREESOME? HAVING ANAL SEX PLEASURABLY? USING A STRAP-ON? OR KEEPING SEX FRESH IN A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP?
Everything is on the table at our live podcast, which was recorded on International Women's Day, and featured a panel of our favourite podcast guests and sex experts answering burning questions crowdsourced from our audience, i.e. you!
We laughed (and maybe died a little inside) over the awkward sex stories that were shared and some of the things you wished more of your partners knew in the bedroom.
This episode celebrated a significant milestone for our podcast, and we are grateful to everyone who contributed in helping us make sex something we all want to talk about!
MORE JUICY BITS ON THE SHOW
9:47- 15:10 Rapid Fire Round: Getting to know the panelists
16:12 – 22:20 How to keep sex fresh with a long term partner
22:39 – 25:35 Anal Sex 101
25:43 – 29:15 Tips for having threesomes or “multisomes”
33:00 – 43:25 How to handle awkward moments in sex
44:55 – 54:15 What do you wish your partner knew in the bedroom
WORDS OF WISDOM
“It is important, if you want to keep things fresh, to do it as a couple. Sometimes, setting an intention together is really important.”
“If you want to expand your horizons from just vanilla, if you want to explore things like kink, fetish, swinging, one of the things you could do just to learn and inspire yourself is probably go toy shopping, watch some porn, do some online classes. Find out as much as you can about all these things.”
“Try to let the girl take the lead if you are in a threesome where there is mixed partnered sex. It’s quite important for the female to feel comfortable. Guys, in general, are kind of a bit more easygoing when threesomes are on the table.”
“Sex, while it can be just this magical, wonderful experience, can also be insanely awkward and embarrassing and that’s totally okay. The trick to overcoming these awkward moments is just to relax and remember that you are not the first human being out there to experience this.”
“Foreplay is all of that play you do for sex, whether it’s before or after, sometimes in between.”
“Women’s bodies are never the same. One thing you do to one woman might not work on others. Just ask and listen to what the ladies want.”
“Sexual experiences are individual. A lot of that sexual chemistry actually connects you with people who are very like-minded.”
OTHER GREAT REFERENCES YOU'LL LOVE
Sally Coco Intimate Lifestyle Store – Sex toy shop founded by Vera Lui
50 Hot Tips For Your Sexual Bucket List – a sample bucket list to get some ideas flowing for your own bucket list
12 Mind-Blowing Anal Sex Positions – Here’s 12 different options if you would like to try anal sex·
6 Best Threesome Sex Positions – Educate yourself with this article about threesome before inviting someone over
TELL US WHAT YOU THINK!
What are your secrets of the bedroom? Is there something that you wished more of your partners knew? Leave us a comment below - we'd love to know!