GET BETTER IN BED

 
 

IS YOUR SEX LIFE MORE 'MEH' THAN 'YEAH'?

 

Sarasense will give you the tools and resources to have a sexier, spicier, more satisfying sex life. 

 
 
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HELLO! I'M SARA

SEX EDUCATOR + PLEASURE COACH

Sex is my passion – thinking about it, writing about it, doing it (mmm-hmm!), and now, sharing what I know about it with you. 

 

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LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX

 
 
 

The Better in Bed podcast is where I host frank, informative, playful conversations about sex, and share inspiration on how we can all get better at it.

 

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I wish I could say this was the case with most of you but.... just kidding! 😝 Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! I'm wishing you a sexy and sensational day (and night). . . . . . #vibrator #valentinespecial #selfloveisimportant #sextoyshop #sextoyss #selflovery #selflove #sextoys #selfpleasure #sexpert #sexeducator #sexcoach #sexcoaching #letstalkaboutsex #sextalk #bettersex #betterinbed #sextoys #valentinesdaygifts #sexpositive #sexpositivity #sexeducator #sexpert #sexblog #sexblogger #sexologist #sexology #valentinesday2019 #valentinesdays #valentinesgifts
***IG GIVEAWAY*** Every kind of love begins with self-love. Don't you agree? ⠀ ⠀ If so, you'll probably be interested in my current giveaway that’s running for a Womanizer Premium! Winners to be announced on 13th Feb, right before Valentine's Day, so there's still time to enter. See my previous post for details on how to win! ⠀ ⠀ You can also enjoy HK$100 off any Womanizer (@womanizerglobal) purchase over HK$1500 at @sallystoy. Simply enter coupon code "saracoco" on sallystoy.com or present it in-store. Valid from Jan 28th - Mar 31st, 2019. ⠀ ⠀ For detailed terms, please contact Sally's Toy. Sally's Toy reserves the right of final decision in case of disputes. ⠀
***IG GIVEAWAY*** Valentines Day is round the corner, and we're celebrating self-love! I'm running this awesome giveaway for a Womanizer Premium (@womanizerglobal), the clitoral stimulator with a pleasure air technology that mimics a suction sensation. It's my current go to sex toy, and I'm excited for one of you to have it. ⠀ ⠀ Check out my IG story to hear more about it, and follow the contest details below to win! #sponsored ⠀ ⠀ Contest details: ⠀ 1. Tag a friend in this post. Ideally someone who could use a Womanizer Premium from @sallystoy⠀ 2. DM me with your email address to enter the giveaway. ⠀ 3. Winner will be announced on 13th Feb!⠀ This giveaway is not sponsored or endorsed by IG. By entering, you are agreeing you are over 18. Hong Kong residents only. Giveaway ends 13th February 2019 at 11:59PM HKT. Selected winner will be notified by email.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ ⠀
Are you doing anything sexy for Valentine's Day this week? I'm not. 😝 Don't get me wrong, I'm all for celebrating love and doing something special with your honey. But the reality is, you don't just have to do that just on Valentine's Day, when everything is over-priced and commercialised.⠀ ⠀ ⠀ However, if you want to win something super-sexy (read: best-selling sex toy, ahem!) for some V-Day loving, check back here tomorrow for my giveaway. Because even though V-Day sucks, love doesn't, and you know how I feel about you guys. 😍😘⠀ ⠀
Are you afraid of anal sex? I've found many women reluctant to try it because of a previous bad experience. On the other hand, I feel like there’s a double standard because I meet men who consider anal sex a standard thing to do for women but they would never try it themselves. Supposedly because “it makes you gay". 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🙄 ⠀ I like to call the anus an "equal opportunity orifice" meaning it feels good for both genders and is worth exploring. My rule of thumb is if my male partner is unwilling to try it, then don’t even bother asking me. 😜 What's your take?⠀
What are your ground rules for exploring anal play safely and pleasurably? As a follow-up to yesterday's post, here are some of mine:⠀ ⠀ 1. Get consent. "Oops, it just slipped" and "Just the tip" are no excuse. ⠀ 2. Get into a relaxed frame of mind. Breathe deep, go slow. ⠀ 2. Start warming up the area with fingers, massage, rimming. ⠀ 3. Progress to toys in a size of your choice. I would start conservatively. Say with the Ditto by @wevibe. ⠀ 4. Use lots of lube. Silicone is a good choice, or a thick water-based lube like Liquid Silk Maximus.⠀ 5. Avoid any cross contamination from the vagina to the anus⠀ 6. Combine anal play with other forms of pleasurable stimulation on the clitoris or penis shaft.⠀ 7. If you're aiming for penetration or an extended anal play session, then think about more extensive preparation such as a douche, enema. ⠀ ⠀ And don't forget to check in and communicate regularly with your partner. Lovers, let me know if you've got any other tips / ground rules? ⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀